Living It Forward By Writing Good Stories

Living It Forward is all about living intentionally and proactively.

Living It Forward is about causing life to happen instead of just allowing it to happen.

Living It Forward is about determining what you want said at your funeral and then living in such a way that those words become your reality.

Living It Forward is not just about writing the script of your life, it’s about living the script of your life. (Remember, what we believe in is evidenced by how we live, not just by what we say.)

With these thoughts in mind, it’s easy to see why these words from Donald Miller’s book A Million Miles In A Thousand Years jumped off the page and into my heart…

“You’re writing another book about yourself?” Jordan asked. He was sitting at the counter in the kitchen eating a bowl of cereal. He had his laptop open and was choosing the starting lineup for his college fantasy basketball team. He’d been playing the game for a year and finally had a division one team. He said he was going to start his best defense, because defense wins championships.

“I’m not writing a book. I’m not talking about a book. I’m talking about me. I don’t think I’m telling a good story.

“I think you tell good stories. Lots of people think so.”

“I tell good stories in books. I don’t live good stories.”

Jordan poured more milk in his cereal. He was looking at me while pouring the milk. He was squinting his eyes a little and furrowing his brow. He stopped pouring the milk. He kept looking at me for ten seconds or more, like he was studying me. 

“You’re right,” he finally said. “You aren’t living a good story.”

“That’s what I was saying.”

“I see,” he said.

“What do I do about that?”

“You’re a writer. You know what to do.”

“No, I don’t.”

Jordan looked at me with his furrowed brow again. “You put something on the page,” he said. “Your life is a blank page. You write on it.”


 Bottom line, Living It Forward is writing good stories on the blank page of your life!

Question: What will you do this week to live it forward and write good stories on the page of your life?

 

  • http://twitter.com/RandellMark Randell Mark

    Kent, Thanks for bringing “A Million Miles In A Thousand Years” back to my mind, that was one of the most amazing books I’ve ever read. Donald truly brings to life what it means to write our own story and actually live life instead of just watching it roll past.

    All of us really do start with a blank page, and it’s up to each of us to write the story we want to live, and when life seems to scribble on our page, our reaction is what makes all the difference in our outcome. (something about E+R=O)

    Thanks for sharing

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      E+R=O…absolutely a way to live it forward and write a good story with your life! Thanks for sharing, Randell.

  • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

    Through books like A Million Miles In A Thousand Years and Love Does, I’m coming to realize the truth in what you said. I’ve begun to take some steps towards that…

    I’m reaching out and trying to connect with locals to form a group to encourage us to take risks to live better and change the world.

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      Sounds like a “live it forward” plan, Joe!

    • http://danblackonleadership.com/ Dan Black

      That’s great Joe!

  • http://intentionaltoday.com/ Ngina Otiende

    I’ll keep moving forward :) There are a couple of distractions right now. And the best way to handle them for now is to just keep a forward march, especially mentally :)
    Great reminder

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      Good job, Ngina!

  • http://www.thindifference.com/ Jon M

    This book, along with Blue Like Jazz, deliver such a powerful message on how to live life fully. It is about living life as a story. My goal – Mix in the right characters, build a real life community to ensure we are living the right story in our lives.

    I am excited to read Donald Miller’s new book coming out real soon. Thanks, Kent!

    Jon

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      You’re welcome, Jon. And you’re right, Donald Miller stuff is so good. Makes me think and reflect big-time.

  • http://danblackonleadership.com/ Dan Black

    I’m reading Blue Like Jazz and love the book. I’m going to make it a point to influence and add value to others this and every week of my life.

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      Outstanding plan, Dan! That’s what life is all about…adding value to others.