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I’m Sick of Common Sense

 

 

Let’s imagine something together, shall we?

 

Imagine a coach spending hours with a client explaining the ins and outs of a proactive job search. He shares the same strategic steps that have worked for hundreds of his clients.

 

During the coaching, there is a lot of interaction…a lot of questions…a lot of explaining.

 

Now, as this particular coaching session comes to a close, imagine the client complaining:  Is that it?  That’s the Proactive Job Search strategy?  I’m not too impressed.  I mean, I’ve heard this all before.

 

Imagine the coach, who is a bit confused, digging a little deeper.   He asks for clarification and discovers that his client has heard some of the strategies being suggested, but he has never heard of them being applied in this particular way in order to create a Proactive Job Search strategy.

 

Now imagine this coach digging even deeper and asking several more questions….

 

  • “How long have you been out of work?”  Answer:  5-6 months.
  • “How many resumes have you sent out?”  Answer:  Hundreds.
  • “How many interviews have you had?”  Answer:  Zero.
  • “Even though you’ve heard of several of these strategies before, have you tried using any of them in your job search?”  Answer:  No.
  • “So why do you have a problem with the Proactive Job Search strategy I just taught you?”  Answer:  Like I said, I’ve heard it all before. It’s common sense.

 

The client isn’t too happy with his coach.

 

But as you can imagine, the coach isn’t too happy with his client either.

 

I’m not sure, but I imagine the client was looking for something more than “common sense.”  Something more dynamic; perhaps something more magical.

 

But I don’t have to imagine what the coach wanted.  He wanted something that every coach wants from a client.  He wanted his client to follow through with what was learned and take some “common sense action.”

 

Why?

 

Well, I imagine this coach has worked with a lot of people who have “heard it all before.”  Of course, some of these people haven’t taken the step of actually applying what they heard, so not much has happened in their lives.  But others did apply the “common sense training” and took “common sense actions.” These are the individuals who achieved the best results!

 

Imagine that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

  • Carissa Magras

    Isn’t it amazing how often we do this in SO many areas of our lives? Every year people seek out the “latest greatest” diet program or pill, when they’ve failed to follow the “common sense” rules of “eat more fruits and vegetables, lay off the sugar and caffeine, drink water, exercise, and get plenty of sleep.” How often do we, as people, seek out “new knowledge” rather than actually just doing what we’ve “heard all before”! =) Thanks for the reminder that simply DOING it is greater than seeking out the latest-greatest! =)

    • Kent Julian

      Carissa,

      First off, I have a feeling you are related to Brandon Magras :) I look forward to working with him!

      Second, your insight is right on. In fact, the best book I read in 2010 had to do with how following through with the simple stuff is what success is all about. Check out “The Compound Effect” by Darren Hardy. Here’s a link:

      https://www.amazon.com/dp/0981951244?tag=livitfor-20&camp=0&creative=0&linkCode=as1&creativeASIN=0981951244

      It’s an excellent resources!

      Thanks again for sharing. Your thoughts are spot on!

      Kent

      • Carissa Magras

        Your feeling is correct – I’m his wife! =) And I will definitely check that book out! I haven’t dug around a whole lot on your blog yet, but have you made a “year’s list of best books”? Brandon and I are always curious what certain people’s favorite books are! — it gives so much insight and wisdom from that person without having to spend the time to pick their brain. =) Just a thought…

        • http://www.kentjulian.com Kent Julian

          Have not listed books yet, but we will be doing so. Thanks for the suggestion.

  • http://www.multiplyleadership.com Mark Jones Jr.

    “Common sense action” is, unfortunately, an uncommon valor. Great application, Kent!

    • Kent Julian

      Thanks Mark. I like that…uncommon valor.

      • Pete M.

        Great post. Funny how it works…

        Being + DOING = Having

        Can’t find the sum without all of the parts.

        • Kent Julian

          Right on, Pete. But I’ve come to expect that from you, buddy!

  • http://www.themotherlode.wordpress.com Theresa Lode

    Kent…man…You’re on fire! What a great post. I tucked away your birthday letter post from last week too, it so resonated with me. I’m sending this onto a very dear friend; your inspired words are just perfect for what she needs to hear.
    Theresa

    • Kent Julian

      So glad Theresa!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Adam-Keith-Hruby/729655718 Adam Keith Hruby

    Great post Kent! It’s AMAZING how dense we can be sometimes. I know I have fallen into the trap of trying to learn everything before setting out and trying some stuff. Problem is, we’ll never know everything! Like Darren Hardy says, the problem isn’t always that we need more learning. It’s that we need more doing with that which we’ve already learned!

    • http://www.kentjulian.com Kent Julian

      Movement, not more meditation, usually is what leads to results!

  • http://www.currentfinances.com Don Current

    Dave Ramsey basically says the same thing. He says all the principles he teaches were things his grandma did. There’s nothing revolutionary or special about it. Heck, “spend less than you make”; it doesn’t get much more common sense than that! Unfortunately common sense isn’t so common any more. People need others to remind them of that, and then help hold them accountable for that. Not to mention an outsider’s prospective can often reveal things we’d never see ourselves.

    It also reminds me of the story of Naaman from the Bible. He wanted some one on one face time with the great prophet, not to be told by a servant to take a bath in the muddy river. It did the trick though, didn’t it? But only because he ACTED on what he was told.

    • http://www.kentjulian.com Kent Julian

      Don…thanks for sharing. Love the Naaman insight. Very nice!

  • http://bluecollarradionetwork.com James Dibben

    Common sense is under appreciated and under utilized! Great post!

    • Anonymous

      So true James!

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  • http://davidwillisblog.com/ David Willis

    It seems to me that people ignore common sense because it drives them out of their comfort zone. It may be the right thing to do, but it doesn’t feel like the easy thing to do. We just love easy stuff. So, they sit back and repeat the same (failed) process over and over. This post spoke to me Kent. Thanks for sharing it.

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