How To Break Through Goal Setting Roadblocks and Achieve Your Goals

How To Break Through Goal Setting Roadblock and Achieve Your GoalsI wish you could sit with me sipping coffee in my living room on an early December morning as I work through the goal setting process. Words cannot express the enthusiasm I feel at that particular moment!

I also wish you could sit with me in March…or July…or November…as I hit goal setting roadblock after goal setting roadblock.

You likely experience the same sort of ups and downs. When setting goals in December, your energy and excitement are unbelievable. Yet when March, July, or November rolls around, the goal setting roadblocks seem impassable.

The following video shares an idea that will revolutionize the way you set personal goals and career goals. Even more, it will revolutionize the way you go about achieving goals. It has for me, and I know it can do the same for you. And when I say revolutionize, I mean REVOLUTIONIZE!

A quick note about the video. At eight minutes, it’s a bit long but well worth the investment of your time. Additionally, within the first two minutes I share the end result so you’ll know where we’re going. It’s a concept called the Four Fence Posts of 100 Percent Responsibility. Understanding how these fence posts function will help you break through your goal setting roadblocks so that you can achieve your goals…both your life goals and your career goals.

One more thing. Be sure to watch the video all the way through because at the conclusion there is a special discount code you can use for significant savings on our Goal Getting e-book (one of Live It Forward’s most popular products).

 

 

Highlights from video:

  • Normal people don’t make history because they embrace an E=O equation.
  • Successful people make history and positively impact others because they add one letter to the equation…E+R=O.
  • E+R=O creates Four Fence Posts of 100 Percent Responsibility.
  • Live within the Four Fence Posts and opportunities will increase for you (i.e. your fence posts will expand).
  • Live outside of the Four Fence Posts and opportunities will shrink for you (i.e. your fence posts will contract).

Questions:

Don’t feel obligated to answer all the following questions, just answer the ones that really hit home with you. Together, let’s start a robust goal setting conversation that will empower us to live E+R=O and achieve both our life goals and our career goals this year.

  • Of all your current life goals, which one is most significant to you?
  • Of all your current career goals, which one is most significant to you?
  • Do you ever fall into an E=O mindset? How do you break out?
  • Which fence post do you struggle with most: attitudes, actions, associations, or articulations? How does this struggle create roadblocks to achieving your goals?
  • What strategies help you take 100 precent responsibility for your responses to the events in your life?  
  • What are your best goal setting ideas?

 

  • http://www.mondayisgood.com/ Tom Dixon

    Compelling ideas for goal setting – thanks for sharing.

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      Thanks much, Tom!

  • Tom Morrison

    Kent,
    Thanks for giving up part of your day to create this video! Love the whole fencepost concept and the expanding play area concept. Am really trying to embrace ownership of
    outcomes! Blessings to you and your family for a fantastic 2013!
    Tom

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      Thanks Tom. As an FYI, I LOVE investing my day in creating videos like this…especially when the serve and add value to people like you.

      Keep expanding those Fence Posts!

  • http://rise365.com/ Michael Good

    Love the 4 fence posts, Kent! Thanks for sharing.

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      My pleasure, Michael!

  • http://www.theleaderforge.com/ Rick Seigmund

    Outstanding Kent! Just drew it out and planted it by my whiteboard!

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      Definitely applies to what you’re facing right now. Live E+R=O and you’ll be living it forward!

  • http://reflectivebiblestudy.com/ Cam

    Great video Kent. Thanks for posting.

    I really appreciate the four fencepost addition to this concept. Well done!

    ~Cam

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      Thanks Cam. The 4 Fence Posts definitely makes it more vivid.

  • Tim White

    This was great Ken. I love the concept. The four fencepost are going to go on the wall next to my desk.

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      Awesome, Tim. Glad to serve!

  • EvaPScott

    I can see where all four of these areas have been helpful or hurtful in the past. It’s going on my whiteboard, too. I shared the link. Thanks!

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      Me too, Polly. Now that I’m aware of the 4 Fence Posts, I strive to make sure they’re helpful :)

      On a different note, are you going by Eva or Polly? Just want to make sure I’m calling you by the name you want me to use :)

      • EvaPScott

        I go by “Polly.” It’s my nickname for Pauline, my middle name. It’s that Southern thing of giving you one name, and then calling you by another. I use the Eva P. Scott because it was available for a Web site. But since Eva is my first legal name many people call me that, too. I go by all my names.

        So, I just tell people to pick whichever one they can remember – ha! I answer to all of them.

        • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

          My name is Christopher Kent Julian, so I’m a middle name person too :)

  • arch1960

    It’s a LOT easier to succeed in life when one associates them-self with great folks like Mr. Kent Julian. I’ve definitely got that one figured out!
    I love your perspective on this bro.

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      Thanks Archie. E+R=O!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100004711923215 Johnny Lee Phillips

    Thanks for sharing Kent! This is one area that I desperately need to work on. I like the 4 fence posts illustration. Awesome!!! :)

    • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

      The more you live within the 4 Fence Post, the more they expand and the more opportunities and freedom you experience.