It’s Not Too Difficult Guys — Love Is Spelled D-A-T-E

Kent & Kathy
Guys, let’s keep this simple. If you want a great marriage, date your wife. Dating is not a magical pill to marital bliss, but it’s close.
Now, I’m not a proponent on creating rules and regulations about dating. For instance, I know some couples who religiously go out every Friday night. To me, that feels legalistic and routine, so it sort of sucks the romance out of dating for me. What’s more, if you slow down enough throughout the week to regularly connect with your spouse, a weekly date could actually feel like overkill. As I’ve shared in many blog post here, Kathy and I connect throughout a typical week by taking walks together, preparing dinners together, eating dinner as a family practically every night, and just spending time in the evening talking. These regular touch points keep us relationally close.
(As a side note, some people like to refer to taking walks and preparing meals together as “dates,” but we don’t. To us, these activities are simply part of doing life together as best friends. We like being together more than anything else, so we look for opportunities to be together as much as possible and don’t feel the need to label these times as “dates.”)
With that said, we still love to date, and even though we have three teenagers living under our roof (which translates into a very busy season of life), we still carve out extended time to get away from it all and date.
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